Boy has it been a rough couple of months… a bit of a challenging path on the journey! Aside from the stress specifically related to the global pandemic (and other things), there is also stress related to how much we are “supposed” to be accomplishing during this time. There can be a lot of pressure, especially on social media, to be super productive and creative during this time and to make sure we accomplish all the things we may not have had time for before the pandemic. But, while some of us may thrive during this current situation, many others may not. And many of us fall into an in-between category where sometimes we are doing well and sometimes we just aren’t. All of that is ok!
Those of you who know me know I already have been talking about success as a measure of effort, not material results. That is true now more than ever. I never was a believer that success should be calculated based on earnings or bank account or size of your house. Yes, those things can be great. But they don’t say anything about you as a person. They also don’t account for all the invisible battles many of us may have such as mental or other illness, trauma, or other unseen circumstances.
In my book, “The Journey of Success: Even When Success Is Just Getting Out of Bed”, I talk about success as a measure of effort. I also talk about “elements” of success. The elements are guidelines that can be used at all times – tough times and easy times, pandemic or no pandemic.
Elements of Success
Keep in mind that the elements are not meant to be a “follow all the steps in order and climb up to the top” guide. There will be times you move forward, times you remain in place, and times you fall back. That’s ok! When you hit a bump in the road or take a wrong turn, it’s ok to hit that reset button and start again with one of the elements.
So, what does success look like during a pandemic? The same as it looks when it’s not a pandemic. You are successful when you are trying… you are successful from your effort. Some days will be better than others. Some days you may be amazing and productive and creative! Other days you may need to rest and reset and take care of yourself. On those days, success may just be getting out of bed. Acknowledge and celebrate your successes, no matter how small. We will get through this.